Tuesday, May 13, 2014

manicure session

The  other day when I was getting my manicure in the parlor the beautician casually asked me - "Madam where do you work?"
I found my self stammering while replying that I am a housewife and a full time mother. I was struggling to find words to justify that I don't find time and I think my son needs me etc. I wanted to convince her that though I chose not to work I still have a self worth. I wanted to prove her that my decision is correct and I don't repent. Though that lady was trying to agree with me because I was her client but I could smell the change of her attitude towards me. I keep thinking and re-framing my answer every now and then. 

Now, sitting in the cafe next to my building I don't know why and what I was trying to justify her?
Back in my school days, I remember coming back from school and chatting with my mother who was always at home waiting for us with our favorite (most of the time) dish.  She didn't have to justify any one about her job. For me the most precious and cherished moments are those gossip sessions with my mother over after-school snack. How can I take away those precious moments from my son now when he NEEDS me. Specially at this young age, as his world revolves around me. I want him to come to a home which reflects positive energy and that only the lady of the house can create. 

Tuesday, May 6, 2014

Cafe Outings

I love going to a cafe with my book or sometimes with my laptop. When I shifted to Japan, I couldn't understand why people have to go to a cafe to read a book? They can do that at home or library. I think now I understand why - to get away from their home environment and get into a new ambiance.  This new atmosphere changes the mood and a cup of coffee with a favorite book makes the experience enjoyable! Now, when I have to think and write then I go to the cafe next to a creek where I can indulge with myself. I couldn't help attaching the picture of my cafe outings!